Life changes and other musings

Wow. Over a month since I’ve posted anything. I plead life changes, grad school, work, and illness as excuses. Life is beginning to look a LOT different than it did pre-op. I’ll post more on that later. It’s interesting to me how we define moments as life-changing. Life before this event and life after this …
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The Easy Way Out

I’m lucky that I haven’t actually had someone say to my face “you’re taking the easy way out”. Mainly because I’d likely have to contact my attorney about defending me against charges of battery, and that probably gets expensive. Or assault. I used to think I had the distinction clear in my head (assault is …
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Two roads diverged in a wood

Last week I got the insurance approval for my bariatric surgery which has been scheduled for mid-August. While I hadn’t talked much about it before I started the formal process for approval, I’ve been thinking about and researching bariatric surgery for several years. There is a general attitude that the surgery is the “easy way …
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On becoming a spoonie

 Christine Miserandino penned a story about how she shared with a friend what living with Lupus was like.  (http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/)  This metaphor gives language to the struggles people who live with chronic illness face, and a community of “spoonies” has arisen.  I joined the ranks of spoonies last year, and everything about my life has changed. …
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